Epilogue
I have been home a few days now. All my stuff is unloaded and put away. All the clothes have been washed and put up, all the bills have been paid to date and I am getting readjusted to life back at home and not in a tent or a hotel room. The heat however is another thing since for the past three weeks I have been in temperatures that were 40-50 degrees cooler than back in the Dallas area, but I will adjust.
Reflecting back on my road trip adventure, I am glad I went and got to see the places I had wanted to see for a long time. I probably will not go on such an extended trip again. Six weeks and 8,475 miles was a long time to be gone on the road, but since I was heading to California , it made sense to me to go ahead and tag a number of the national parks onto the trip since I was going to be on that side of the country. I had planned to camp about half the time, but that changed after Bryce Canyon and I headed north to Wyoming , Montana and South Dakota where they were having record low temperatures and wetter weather (rain and/or snow) for this time of year. Since this was to be a “fun” trip and putting up or taking down a tent in the rain and/or snow is not a fun thing to have to do, I abandoned the camping at that point. The other camping experience was fine, except for the wind storm the night before I left Death Valley and I thought my tent and I might become a tumbleweed rolling across the desert floor.
Why did I take this trip other than some of the obvious reasons to see some great scenery and beautiful landscapes of our country? One, I was inspired by the PBS series on the National Parks by Ken Burns. I thought that it would be a great road trip to take to visit some of those places I had read about and always hoped to visit someday. Second, I had just finished going through a rough patch in my personal life, with the ending of a marriage that lasted just over three and half years. As a result I was emotionally spent from that experience and my spirit needed recharging. So, I needed to get away and do something completely different and this was as good as anything else I could possibly do. I also needed to do it while I was still healthy enough to make the trip and see all these places. Not that my health is in jeopardy, but you never know when something might happen.
I also got to spend a week with my daughter, Kristen and her family in San Francisco , arriving there the day before my granddaughter’s, Mary Judah, eighth birthday. I also got to spend some time with my grandson Killian, which previous trips have been shorter and not afforded the opportunity. He is almost five now and we were able to do some things together. We went on a guy’s day out to the movies one day and on a bike ride another day among other times together.
During that six week adventure I visited at least15 national and state parks and historic sites and landmarks and traveled to 12-13 states. Some people have asked if I had a favorite of the places I visited and that is really hard to decide. My observations and some comparisons of them are as follows:
The Grand Canyon of course is majestic and well, Grand. You could stand on the south rim and stare across the canyon for hours trying to take it all in. The sunset I got to witness at the canyon was awe inspiring even though the wind had come up that evening and was blowing everything around. I was glad I got to be at the Grand Canyon Easter and on “Bitsy Day” since my late wife and I were there only for a couple of hours in 1975 and we always wanted to go back but, life seemed to get in the way, that and maybe three children and other distractions.
Yosemite Valley and Zion Canyon are similar in that the parks are on the valley floor and towering above are these stone mountains. Yosemite is gray granite, where Zion is red sandstone. Yosemite Valley ’s abundance of water falls adds to its stunning quality. Both have rivers running along the roads into the valley, making them scenic byways. The other parts of Yosemite (Hetch Hetchy and Wawona) are contrasts in the variety of landscapes that make up this park about the size of Rhode Island from the ruggedness of Hetch Hetchy to the Sequoia Giants in Wawona. Of course one of the highlights of Yosemite was meeting Dara, the young woman taking the wilderness EMT training, and talking with her about where her life’s next phase was going to take her. The evening we met I was unloading things from my car and she was unloading hers and she asked if I was on a trip or something to that effect. I replied I was on a national parks bucket list road trip. She responded that I didn’t look old enough to have a bucket list. I liked her immediately! I hope I was able to be an encouragement to her. Looking back, I sometimes think the reason I wound up staying at the Yosemite Bug Mountain Resort, was that God had placed me there to be an encouragement to Dara at this juncture in her life. He does work in mysterious ways at times. I hope to hear from her when she gets back home this month and find out what her next steps might be.
It was raining at Zion , unfortunately, the few hours I had to spend there and I would like to return under more favorable conditions and hike some of the trails. The drive in from the east entrance to the canyon was fantastic and worth the detour I made to go there on my way to Grand Teton .
The Badlands National Park was as different from the others as you can imagine. The formations in the park are mounds and/or eroded structures. There are lots of color variations in the formations. It was very scenic as you could look out over the formations toward the valleys and basins beyond them seeing thirty miles in some places if the sky was clear. The terrain is made up of what seems like sandy clay that sticks to everything when it gets wet. I brought several pounds of it back in the wheel wells of my car from driving along the Sage Creek Rim Road while it was still muddy in places. Once it hardens it doesn’t just flake off, it has to be removed. Fortunately the car wash when I got back home was able to remove it with the high pressure hose.
On my journey I got to meet lots of people from many different states and countries. All of them were taking in the sights of the national parks, a national treasure that we all get to share. I had the opportunity to visit with some friends in Reno who had recently moved there from Garland . I also got to visit with some other friends by stopping by Springdale , Arkansas on my way home.
I left on this journey somewhat rushed in that I got off on my trip three days later than planned and had to drive a long way the first day in order to make the Grand Canyon the second day. A family emergency had me making a ten day trip to Houston before I was to leave so when I got back I had one full day to finish getting things ready to leave if I was going to make the Grand Canyon for Easter. I felt like I was out of breath the first several days as a result and was trying to catch up to myself. The week in San Francisco was a good respite after the first week’s challenges.
I left needing recharging and trying to get my life back in perspective after the emotional turmoil of the preceding several months. And overall it accomplished that and helped jump start the process. It was, sometimes, like those hikes I went on in several of the parks. The path was rough with many pitfalls, but at the end of the trail the view was more than worth it. During the past several months, maybe even more than a year with all that has gone on in my life, a song by Wayne Watson, was a source of encouragement to me, hoping that at the end of the rough path I was on that I would find a beautiful place. So in closing I leave you with the words to this song which sort of sums up my road trip adventure and the beautiful places I got to experience.
A Beautiful Place – Wayne Watson
If I had my way I must admit if I called every play of the game
I’d pray for good times, blue sky and sunshine and I’d avoid with a passion any pain
But with every blow from an angry wind and with every dark shadow that falls
There’s a better view up around the bend where this puzzle makes some sense after all
Mistakes and misfortunes will come and go, for you to try and still fail is no disgrace
Sometimes a rough and rocky road is going to take you to a beautiful place.
Is there anyone out there looking back through your faith can deny that your Father knows what’s best
Oh, but at the time and place for the life of you, you saw no reason, no good for the test
But now remembering as you watched His hand put the color to your black and white dreams
Maybe one more time that’s what you can see, for the trouble at the moment isn’t as bad as it seems.
Mistakes and misfortunes will come and go, for you to try and still fail is no disgrace
Sometimes a rough and rocky road is going to take you to a beautiful place.
Sometimes the unspoiled beauty of the wisdom of God is lying there in the wilderness
Up there beyond the easy reach, where the journey takes a little more, just a little more faith I guess
Sometimes mistakes, misfortunes will come and go, for you to try and still fail is no disgrace
Sometimes a rough and rocky road is going to take you to a beautiful place.
Sometimes a rough and rocky road is going to take you, take you to a beautiful place.
And that’s the end of this road, for now……